Choosing Grace Over Retaliation

by Yvette van Niekerk 1 Thessalonians 5: 15 (NLT) “See that no one pays back evil for evil, but always try to do good to each other and all people.”

It's easy to scoff at this verse, especially when we've been wronged. The temptation to retaliate, to escalate the conflict, can be overpowering. How dare they treat me this way? It's maddening, especially when they justify their actions. As a Christian, I find myself at a crossroads. I must resist the urge to repay evil with evil. Instead, I'm called to be gracious and forgiving. Yet, at this moment, I'm struggling. It's tempting to think that 2000 years ago, the Apostle Paul couldn't fathom our modern complexities. But human nature remains constant. The challenge lies in shifting my perspective to see others through God's eyes. I've heard that I have the power to change my behaviour, but goodness, it's a formidable task. The person is a constant presence, a daily wellspring of frustration. So, where do I begin this journey of renewing my mind? Proverbs 4: 7-9 provides a beacon: “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore, get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding. Exalt her, and she shall promote thee: she shall bring thee to honour when thou dost embrace her. She shall give to thine head an ornament of grace: a crown of glory shall she deliver to thee.” I'll admit, I'm not the wisest person on this earth. That's why I need to immerse myself in God's Word. It's not a casual endeavour; it demands my full attention. I must study day and night until something shifts within me. I must become unreasonably committed to God's Word. It's a discipline I'm struggling to instil, but it's the key to renewing my mind. How do I stay committed? How do I become unreasonably committed to God and His Word? Prayer: Father God, I long to saturate myself with Your Word. I confess my weakness, my lack of insight and wisdom. Please, when my old self surfaces, yearning for retribution, grant me the strength to choose grace. Grant me wisdom for each new day. In Jesus' name, I pray. Amen.

Navigating Forgiveness: Overcoming the Struggle

Luke 4: 2 - 4

2 And he said unto them, When ye pray, say, Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done, as in heaven, so in earth. 3 Give us day by day our daily bread. 4 And forgive us our sins; for we also forgive every one that is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver us from evil. (Luke 11:2-4 KJV) In Matthew 18, Peter sought guidance from Jesus on the frequency of forgiveness towards those who wronged him. He questioned, "Up to seven times?" To this, Jesus responded, "Not seven times, but seventy times seven." Here, the emphasis lay not in the numerical count, but in the underlying principle. Jesus was urging a perpetual state of forgiveness, a consistent thread woven into the fabric of our lives. He encouraged us, through today's Scripture, to be prepared to forgive each day. This was a deliberate framework to prevent us from harboring hurts, grievances, and letdowns. I find that enacting this principle is far from easy; it's a struggle, particularly in moments of distress. It's a realization that forgiveness isn't always straightforward, especially when one feels wronged and frustrated by the apparent impunity of the other party's behavior. What troubles me most is the intensity of my anger towards this person. It weighs heavily on my conscience, leading to self-imposed punishment. I grapple with releasing this resentment, with letting go and moving forward. At times, I even question my own sanity. In the tapestry of life, we encounter numerous individuals carrying their own unhealed wounds. Occasionally, they may act disrespectfully, utter words they shouldn't, or inflict pain upon others. While we cannot entirely shield ourselves from such offenses, we can choose how deeply they affect us. So, how can we navigate this journey without succumbing to offense, bitterness, or grudges? This is a question that haunts many of us. I constantly feel as though I'm letting down the Lord Jesus Christ. I find solace in my ceaseless prayers, imploring, "Lord, forgive me. I forgive them, but their actions continue to stoke my anger." In this process, I am learning that forgiveness is a profound act of self-liberation. It is not an endorsement of wrongdoings, but a conscious decision to release the burdens that weigh on my soul. By doing so, I am slowly but steadily reclaiming my inner peace and inching towards a life free from the chains of resentment. Remember, this journey towards forgiveness is not about perfection, but about progress. It's about taking one step at a time, leaning on faith, and trusting that with each act of forgiveness, we inch closer to the serenity our hearts yearn for. Prayer Your prayer reflects a sincere desire for growth and understanding. Let's refine it to make it more powerful and personal: Heavenly Father, I come before you with a humble heart, acknowledging my shortcomings and my tendency to complain about those who mistreat me. I recognize that I need to change my perspective towards them. Holy Spirit, I beseech you to guide me today, to help me see others through your loving eyes. Grant me the wisdom to understand their struggles and the compassion to respond with kindness. I choose to forgive, as I acknowledge that I, too, am not without fault, and there may be sinful thoughts in my heart. Wash me clean, dear God, and grant me the strength to walk in love and forgiveness. Lord, I ask for your divine grace to transform me, so that I may reflect your character in my interactions with others. In the name of Jesus Christ, I pray. Amen.

Choosing Life: Prioritizing the Word

Introduction: In Romans 8:6, we are presented with a powerful choice: to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace. This seemingly straightforward decision holds deeper implications than we might initially perceive. Let's delve into the profound wisdom embedded in this verse and explore its application in our lives. The Subtle Nature of Choosing Death: Choosing death isn't always as overt as a perilous leap from a precipice. It often manifests in subtler forms, primarily as being entangled in the trappings of this worldly realm. This entanglement blinds us to the abundant life that awaits through spiritual enlightenment. The Life-Giving Power of the Word: Proverbs 4:20-22 implores us to attend to God's words, for they are life itself. To be Word-minded is to embrace life in its purest form, transcending the confines of worldly preoccupations. Proverbs 4: 20 – 22 KJV “My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings. Let them not depart from thine eyes; keep them in the midst of thine heart. For they are life unto those that find them, and health to all their flesh.” The Mary and Martha Parable: In Luke 10: 38 - 42, the story of Mary and Martha vividly illustrates this principle. While Martha was engrossed in the practicalities of providing a meal, Mary sat at Jesus' feet, absorbing His teachings. When Martha voiced her concerns, Jesus gently reminded her of the essential choice before her. Mary's Wise Choice: Mary's decision to prioritize the Word over worldly responsibilities exemplifies the path to true life. By setting aside the immediate demands of living, she embraced the eternal wisdom that Jesus imparted. Avoiding the Pitfall of Martha: It's easy to empathize with Martha's predicament. We too may feel that our daily responsibilities are non-negotiable. Yet, as Martha discovered, Jesus is more than capable of providing for our needs when we prioritize Him. Putting the Word First: To choose life is to prioritize the Word above all else. Just as Jesus provided miraculously for the multitudes, He stands ready to meet our needs when we place Him at the forefront of our lives. Conclusion: Let us heed the wisdom of Romans 8:6 and the lessons from Mary and Martha. In our pursuit of life and peace, let us not be ensnared by the trappings of this world. Instead, may we choose the life-giving sustenance found in the Word, allowing it to guide and nourish our souls. Scripture Reading: Romans 8:5-13

Lesson Learned: Embracing Life's Changes

By Yvette van Niekerk Job 23: 10 (RSV) But he knows the way that I take; when he has tried me, I shall come forth as gold. Throughout my life, I've come to realize that change is the only constant, even when we resist it. It may sound simplistic, but every day brings new experiences, and circumstances are in a perpetual state of flux. People, including myself, are prone to changing their minds. What held great importance yesterday might merely be a passing thought today. Amidst my countless aspirations, time often slips through my fingers. Between a full day of work and preparing dinner upon returning home, the hours seem to vanish. After dinner, we wash the dishes and settle in front of the TV. We wind down with a bath before heading to bed. This routine, while comforting, can sometimes feel like a never-ending loop. Reflecting on the story of Job, I am struck by the magnitude of his trials. He lost everything, even his beloved children. Yet, in the end, Job declared, "I shall come forth as gold." Currently, I find myself in a crucible of pressure, where my thoughts weigh heavily on me. I battle feelings of inadequacy and a sense of insignificance. The process of refinement is arduous, and at times, it feels like an uphill climb. I perceive the need for this refining process in my life. I believe the Lord is meticulously honing me, much like silver in a furnace. "For You, O God, have tested us; You have refined us like silver." Lord, I yearn for Your purification, to be made worthy in Your eyes. I long to emerge as gold, but I recognize that this transformation requires God's hand to purify not just my faith, but also my speech and actions. My thoughts, too, need this sanctification. This morning, I earnestly seek You, Lord, for I am utterly dependent on You. I yearn to draw near to Your presence intentionally. Every minute of this day, I surrender into Your hands, seeking Your guidance and grace. Thank You, Lord, for hearing my prayers. You are acquainted with the challenges we face at this very moment. Today, I declare Psalm 34:19 over our circumstances: "Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but You, Lord, deliver us from them all." I will be attentive to Your voice, Lord. Guide us through this day. You are my rock, and I am profoundly grateful that You incline Your ear to me.

Embracing the Art of Waiting on the LORD

by Yvette van Niekerk

Lamentations 3: 25 (RSV) The Lord is good to those who wait for him, to the soul that seeks him. How to wait on the LORD? This million-dollar question is of paramount importance. When I set aside time to wait for the Lord, I find solace in seeking a quiet space. It's crucial to consider my surroundings and the people in my vicinity. To maintain focus and clarity, I immerse myself in prayer and meditate on scriptures that hold relevance to my current situations. I am reminded that the Lord is gracious to those who patiently await Him, and He is kind to those who diligently seek Him. In my perspective, being in a tranquil environment with peace and stillness allows me to patiently await the answers I seek to move forward. Today, I acknowledge that answers don't always come immediately. Yet, when they do, I am often astonished, scarcely able to believe the remarkable occurrences. It's astonishing to witness how our Lord manifests Himself when we await His responses. Lord, today I long to hear from You. You understand my current feelings of inadequacy, unworthiness, and the sense of standing before You with a trembling heart. You know of my feelings of insignificance and inferiority today. Lord, You are aware of my concerns about the cake I baked. I wonder if this lady will appreciate it. I crafted it with the vision of it being delightful. I'm curious about her reaction upon seeing it. You are also aware, Lord, that my husband and I sense the weight of certain sanctions. May I implore You to lift these sanctions and grant us Your supernatural favor today. This morning, LORD, I recall Your Word in Mark 11:24, "Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours." Lord, I believe that You are at work on behalf of both myself and my husband. Jeremiah 33:3 assures us, "Call to me and I will answer you, and will tell you great and hidden things that you have not known." Lord, in our current state, may I seek from You a revelation regarding our next steps? Can You speak into both my heart and my husband's heart so that we may address what You are revealing to us? Thank You, Lord, in Jesus Christ's name. Amen.

Embracing Chooseday: Conquering Challenges with Faith and Purpose

by Yvette van Niekerk Joshua 14: 12 (RSV) So now give me this hill country of which the LORD spoke on that day; for you heard on that day how the Anakim were there, with great fortified cities: it may be that the LORD will be with me, and I shall drive them out as the LORD said. My daughter (Odette de Beer - Amplify Your Business) coined a new word for Tuesday: “chooseday.” I love this because it emphasizes the power of choice. I believe that each person faces challenges every day, and it is through these challenges that we grow. This morning, I pray, “Lord my God, give me this hill country.” I feel I possess the necessary strength and knowledge, yet sometimes I lack the understanding and wisdom. In all I do, I echo the words of Caleb: I am not afraid to take on the next challenge, to climb the mountains as they come my way. I begin my day with these words from the most important book I study and read, the Bible: “The righteous will flourish like palm trees; they will grow like the cedars of Lebanon” (Psalm 92:12). I firmly believe that I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Today, I want to encourage you that nothing in this world is impossible. It is often we who create the boundaries that make life seem insurmountable. God is currently equipping me in my new job. My life statement remains: “Lord, I know You have a good plan for my life, and I want to embrace the new challenges today. LORD, please show me how to conquer this day and anything I need to.” Remember, the Bible's message is particularly relevant to our personal lives every day. I recognize that God knows everything we say and do. He also gives each of us time to speak to Him. He is waiting to hear from us. Lord, is there something I need to take responsibility for? Help me to see and hear what it is You are saying to me today. Prayer Lord, this morning I earnestly seek You. Show me the path I need to walk and grant me the strength to become the person You have destined me to be, so that I may confidently stand in my rightful place. Father, I yearn to discover and fulfil my role in Your divine plan today. I long to be considered faithful, bearing abundant fruit throughout my life. I implore You to unveil any adjustments I must make to receive an overflow of grace to firmly hold my position. I choose You, Lord Jesus. Amen.

Reflection on life well-lived; trust; introspection and hope

by Yvette

As the years pass, I find myself reflecting more on my behavior, how I treat others, and how I interpret their treatment of me. I observe their actions and carefully consider their words. I wonder if this introspection is a common trait among those in their golden years. It's a stark contrast to my earlier days when I paid little mind to others' opinions or actions. Back then, their place in life and their pursuits didn't concern me; I was engrossed in my own endeavors. Now, lying on my bed, serenaded by the joyful melodies of birds, hope surges within me. Each new day brings fresh opportunities. I aspire to fill my thoughts with joy, to release the burdens of anger and hurt that have lingered for too long. Lord, today I place my trust in You, surrendering all my worries and anxieties into Your capable hands. I am reassured by 1 Peter 5:7, which implores us to "cast all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you," and find strength in Psalm 56:1-13, which declares, "Trust in God; He is stronger than any adversary." I resolve to shift my focus towards Your boundless mercy and grace. I will sing of Your enduring love, making known Your faithfulness through the ages. Your love stands unwavering, firmly established in the heavens. You promised, "I have made a covenant with my chosen one, I have sworn to David my servant: I will establish your line forever and make your throne firm through all generations." Unlike David, I am a simple individual, without grand lineage to boast of. In You, I place my trust, and my praise shall forever be Yours. Prayer Lor my the favor of the LORD our God rest upon me and my family and friends, establish the work of our hands for us - yes, establish the work of our hands. Thank you Lord Jesus Amen

Embracing Divine Dreams: A Journey of Faith and Perserverance

by Yvette van Niekerk

In Genesis 37:8 (RSV), Joseph's brothers, consumed by jealousy, questioned his dreams of reigning over them. Despite their hatred, Joseph clung to his dreams, remaining steadfast in his faith. In our own lives, not everyone will support our dreams, but like Joseph, we must hold onto them tightly, trusting in God's plan even when it's hard to see. Genesis 37: 8 (RSV) His brothers said to him, “are you indeed to reign over us? Or are you indeed to have dominion over us?” So they hated him yet more for his dream and for his words. Jealousy turned Joseph's brothers bitter, blinding them to God's greater purpose. In moments of despair, it's natural to lose sight of our dreams. We might feel adrift, our passion fading like mist in the wind. Yet, even in these moments, we can turn to God, asking for a renewed dream and vision. We can pray for guidance from the Holy Spirit, seeking the strength to stand firm in God's Word. During challenging times, it's essential to lean on faith. In our struggles, we can echo Joseph's plea, asking God to help us trust in His plans. We may feel lost and unable to face the day, but through faith, we find the strength to move forward. Let us pray for restoration in our lives, both in our positions and in the world around us. As we reflect on our circumstances, we can turn to God for help. Just as the people of Israel faced sudden war, we too may encounter unexpected challenges. In these moments, we can bring our concerns before God, seeking His intervention. Let us pray for peace in the land of Israel and God's people worldwide. In our journey, we are reminded to trust in God's timing and to hold onto our dreams, no matter the obstacles. Through faith, we can find the strength to face each day, knowing that God is with us, guiding us toward His divine purpose.

Empowered by Faith: Overcoming Challenges with Luke 10: 19

"Luke 10:19 (RSV) reassures us: 'Behold, I have given you authority to tread upon serpents and scorpions and over all the power of the enemy; and nothing shall hurt you.' This profound scripture not only instills faith but also encourages us to recognize the abundant opportunities that often go unnoticed amidst life's challenges. As a devoted Christian, I may not have physically encountered serpents or scorpions, but in the spiritual realm, I have triumphed over numerous challenges. This scripture is a beacon of hope, reminding me that God has bestowed upon me the authority to overcome all obstacles. The knowledge that I possess the power to tread upon serpents and scorpions, coupled with the assurance that I am shielded from harm, emboldens my spirit. The concept of 'nothing shall hurt me' resonates deeply within me, serving as a constant reminder of God's unwavering protection. This assurance empowers me to face each day with courage, embracing new projects and experiences with a heart full of faith. I find solace in the incredible truth that I am not alone in my endeavors; the Lord, in His infinite wisdom, strengthens me. All glory and honor belong to God, for I am merely an instrument of His divine will. Through Christ Jesus, I draw strength, recognizing that my abilities are magnified through His grace. With this understanding, I approach life's challenges with confidence, trusting in God's promise that nothing shall hurt me." Heavenly Father, I come before you in gratitude, centering my thoughts on Your Word. I am thankful, Lord, for the assurance that "nothing shall hurt me." Your protective hand is stretched out over my life, guiding my path and shielding me from harm. I humbly seek your divine guidance, trusting that you will illuminate the right doors of opportunity for me and my family in the days to come. May your wisdom direct our steps and may we walk in the light of your blessings. In the holy and powerful name of Jesus Christ, I pray. Amen.

Letter to my friends

Dear Beloved Friends in Christ, I hope this message finds you in the peace and grace of our Lord. Today, I am compelled to share with you a powerful scripture that has been resonating in my heart. In Lamentations 3:21-22 (RSV), it is written, "But this I call to mind, and therefore I have hope: The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases, his mercies never come to an end." As we meditate upon these words, let us be filled with awe and gratitude. Amid life's challenges, it is truly astounding to know that our hope rests in the unwavering love of the Lord. We must remind ourselves that we can find hope in the Lord's love, which is boundless and everlasting. His love never ceases; He will never cut us off. His mercies are inexhaustible and never come to an end. In these trying times, it is crucial to immerse ourselves in the Word of God. By doing so, we renew our minds and become like sponges, absorbing His teachings and wisdom. When life squeezes us, and we face trials and tribulations, what spills out of us is the beautiful aroma of God's love and grace. This fragrance is refreshing, and it stems from being filled with the Lord's Word. I have observed a lack of care and mercy in our interactions with one another. It pains my heart to witness the absence of essential virtues such as mercy and respect among us. In our journey as Christians, let us not forget to extend these qualities to others, just as the Lord extends His mercy and love to us. Let us bow our heads in prayer: "Dear Lord, we come before you with humble hearts, seeking your guidance and strength. Help us not to lose hope, even in the face of challenges. Teach us to place our trust in You and Your sacred scriptures. Grant us the wisdom and patience to navigate every situation life throws our way. Lord, we love and worship You, and we place our lives in Your hands. In the precious name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen." May the love and mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ be with each one of you, comforting and sustaining you in every moment. In Christ's love, Yvette

Affirmation in the Almighty God

In the sacred verses of Exodus 35:35, I find affirmation that the Almighty has endowed me with creativity, a divine gift meant to be celebrated and utilized. It is a profound calling, one I believe I am meant to fulfill through various channels. God has whispered His purpose into my soul, guiding me to serve Him through my passion for baking, crafting intricate cake toppers, chronicling my thoughts in a blog, and expressing my love through embroidery.

As I immerse myself in these creative endeavors, I am reminded of my earnest desire to remain in His divine presence. Proverbs 23:7 cautions me about the power of my thoughts, urging me to align them with the purity of His teachings. I long to shed the cloak of negativity that has draped my mornings and conversations. Thus, I declare my willingness to be taught, to open myself to the transformative touch of the Holy Spirit, and to renew my mind with the Word of God. Though I have fashioned charming fondant animals and crafted exquisite cakes, I yearn for more. I crave the ability to nurture creative thinking, to birth extraordinary ideas that could reshape my destiny. Lord, grant me the grace to perceive Your messages not just spiritually but also through the tangible world around me. Help me develop the vision that Joel 2:28 speaks of, for I confess that I have lost the art of dreaming. Repeated discouragements have dimmed the light of my aspirations, leaving me feeling stagnant and unfulfilled as I approach my 60th year. Yet, I hold onto hope, for I know Your timing is divine. I await Your vision for my life, yearning for the revelation of Your purpose. With an open heart and a spirit receptive to Your guidance, I surrender my anxieties. Lord, I pray for Your wisdom to discern the path You've laid out for me. In this moment of seeking and listening, I rest my soul in Your hands, trusting that Your divine plan will unfold in its perfect time. Amen.

In Him (Jesus Christ): Embracing the Transformational Power of God's Love

by Yvette van Niekerk In the depths of Romans 5:9 (NLT), we find a profound truth that echoes through the ages: "We have been made right in God’s sight by the Blood of Christ." As I delve into the pages of the Bible, I'm astounded by the magnitude of God's love – a love so immense that He sent Christ to die for us while we were still sinners. This love transforms us, making us right in His sight through the redeeming power of Christ's blood. It's a profound realization that brings me both awe and humility. How incredible it is to be embraced by God just as we are, faults and all. But recently, I've grappled with a challenging concept: the difference between my position in Christ and my daily condition. I confess, there are moments when I fail God, when I miss the mark. In these times, I find solace in 2 Corinthians 5:21: "God made him (Jesus) who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God." It's a reminder of my position in Christ – a position of righteousness. Yet, the struggle lies in my daily condition. Here, I've discovered the role of the Holy Spirit. The Spirit, the transformative force, works tirelessly to align my condition with my position. Through repentance, confession, and the cleansing power of God, I am constantly changing. I find hope in 2 Corinthians 3:18 (NLT): "The Lord who is the Spirit makes us more and more like him as we are changed into his glorious image." It's a promise of ongoing transformation. In moments of weakness, I turn to God, acknowledging my flaws and seeking His forgiveness. I trust that He is working in me, refining my character, molding me into His likeness. This journey of change is not without its challenges. There are days when disappointment clouds my heart, when I question the path set before me. But in those moments, I remember His promises, such as Isaiah 66:12: "I will bring you lasting prosperity; the wealth of the nations will flow to you like a river that never goes dry." Dear Lord, I come before you, acknowledging my shortcomings. If I have sinned knowingly or unknowingly, I ask for your forgiveness. I surrender my disappointments and struggles to you, trusting in your greater plan. Please, Lord, do not forget about me in my time of need. I hold onto your promises, knowing that your love and transformative power are guiding me through this journey. In Jesus Christ's name, I pray. Amen.

Humbling Myself Under the Mighty Hand of God: Finding my Destiny at 60

by Yvette van Niekerk

Introduction As I approach my sixtieth year this November, I find myself reflecting on life's purpose. Have I missed my destiny? It seems like those in their early twenties to late forties are diligently preparing for their futures, while I grapple with uncertainties. Could it be that I faltered in the Pride test? I can't even articulate my current dreams. Financial troubles loom. Yet, in Jeremiah 29:11, I find assurance: "For I know the plans I have for you..." The question remains: how do I align myself with God's greater dream? Discovering God's Dream for Me The key lies in truly knowing God. As Psalm 103:7 imparts, "He made known his ways to Moses..." Getting to know God and understanding His ways will unveil His dream for my life. His plan surpasses my own, for His greatness far exceeds my understanding. The challenge is to step aside and allow His dream to take precedence. The Pride Test: Numbers 12:6 reveals how even the most faithful, like Moses, can communicate with God. My journey, however, has been marked by pride. How can I amend this? Can I rectify my past missteps? Silencing the Ego, Embracing God's Plan My destiny is not confined to a singular dream; it's about moulding my character. Pride thrives on self-promotion, but Matthew 12:34 reminds me that it stems from the heart. My words reflect my heart's condition. It's time to cease the self-centred narrative. Reflecting on the past, I acknowledge my folly in boasting about supporting my family and Warawa. God, in His grace, is at work in my life. Rooting Out Pride: Embracing God's Confidence Pride's root lies in feelings of inadequacy. I currently find myself in this space, grappling with a perceived lack of skill. But I recognize that God, not self, is the source of my strength and wisdom. In becoming more confident in the Lord's abilities working through me, I'll shed pride. This starts with daily humbling myself in His presence. The story of a Prince disguising himself to win his beloved's heart resonates with me. It mirrors Jesus' sacrifice, leaving heaven to walk among us. Like the Prince's bride, I must remember where I come from. A Royal Identity: Overcoming Insecurities As a child of the King, I'm secure in my identity. In Him, I find the strength to tackle any task He sets before me. Knowing I'm adopted into His royal family, I remain free from the chains of pride. I must first pass the Pride test to fulfil the destiny God has designed for me. Conclusion As I journey towards my sixtieth year, I cling to the promise in Jeremiah 29:11. God's plan for me, though beyond my comprehension, is infused with hope and purpose. My path forward lies in humbling myself daily before the Creator, for in His presence, my pride diminishes. I embrace my identity as a child of the King, ready to step into the destiny He has ordained.

Cultivating Grace: A Journey of Transformation and Divine Favor

by Yvette van Niekerk In 1 Corinthians 15:10, it is written, “But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace to me was not without effect. No, I worked harder than all of them – yet not I, but the grace of God that was with me.” Often, I hear the phrase “it is what it is,” and I resonate with the sentiment of being content with oneself. There is no one quite like me – in appearance, actions, or thoughts. I often ponder my past actions and wonder why I acted in certain ways. Reflecting on the life of the Apostle Paul, I am struck by his deep understanding of God's divine secrets. He possessed the keys to a fruitful, victorious, and power-packed Christian life, fueled by the grace of God. I long for that kind of grace in my spiritual journey, believing it would fortify me during my most challenging times. As I look at Paul's life, I marvel at his dedication – preaching, teaching, and proclaiming the gospel despite intense pressure and persecution. I wonder if I could ever reach such heights in my relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. How did Paul do it? He comprehended that it was not his strength but the grace of God working through him. I aspire to reach that level of understanding, to fully know and comprehend God. I yearn to tap into God’s supernatural kindness, favour, and spiritual power – His grace. Presently, I find myself in a difficult situation. Despite the presence of my husband and children, I feel an overwhelming sense of loneliness. I am beseeching the Lord God for wisdom, insight, and above all, understanding. My life has shifted dramatically, and I am struggling to cope. Every day seems daunting, and I cannot face it without the Lord by my side. I need His supernatural favour and the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Lord, I implore you to grant me Your grace today. I cannot navigate this day without You. The pressure is immense, and I yearn to perform flawlessly, to make You proud. I want to transform my thinking, cease my complaints, and mature in my walk with You. Please renew my mind, break the patterns of negative thinking, and help me change my speech. I am trapped in a cycle of negativity; Lord, please forgive me. I am here, Lord, seeking Your grace to renew my life. Your grace is all-encompassing and sufficient for every need and challenge I face. Father God, I acknowledge that I am what I am solely by Your grace. Today, I strive to work diligently to align myself with Your will. But I am only human; I need Your assistance to bear fruits that are pleasing in Your sight. I implore You for supernatural favour in my relationship with You and with others. Open doors for me and my family, Lord; we are desperate for Your grace. Hear my plea, Lord. Amen.

Embracing God's Mercy and Love

by Yvette van Niekerk

At meal times, we pause to say grace. Yet, I find myself pondering - do I truly grasp the depth of God's grace? The scriptures define it as an action of divine favor, a force that washes away sin and absolves guilt. It's the love of God, given freely, when I least deserve it. His grace stands as a beacon of forgiveness and acceptance, sufficient for every day. All I need to do is ask for it. Let's turn the spotlight on me for a moment. I am far from perfect. I've lied, stolen, gossiped, and even cheated. Each transgression carries its own weight of consequences, and guilt swiftly follows. There were times when I hesitated to seek God's grace, comparing my shortcomings to others', thinking mine were somehow worse. These experiences left scars, yet I continued to function. I once embarked on a journey to earn God's forgiveness, convinced of my own unworthiness. Though I might have appeared righteous on the surface, my soul felt as dark as pitch. I began by tentatively approaching the Lord, tears in my eyes. How could He, I wondered, even look upon someone like me? Soon, it dawned on me that Grace isn't a carte blanche to evade the repercussions of my actions. It doesn't grant me immunity to sin without consequence. Instead, it shifted my focus from my wrongdoings to God's word. To realign my life, I had to dive into the scriptures, rebuilding my connection with Him. I had to allow His grace to wash over my guilt, to accept it. How? Romans 4:17 reminds me, "I have made you the father of many nations." And Romans 5:8 resonates, "but God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us." Following that, Romans 6:15 sternly warns against using grace as an excuse to sin. God's grace beckons me, and I want to draw near. Lord, I believe, and I accept Your Word, as Hebrews 4:16 encourages, "Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in times of need." What have I learned? Guilt leads to condemnation. I yearn to live in conviction, where God uses my guilt as a compass, guiding me towards His Grace, leading to spiritual growth. How do I achieve this? I must grant God access to my thoughts, allowing Him to renew my mind. I need His Spirit to unveil my sin and expose its true nature. I must grow to abhor my sin, to desperately yearn for God, to cling to Him for forgiveness. I've grieved over my actions, but I've struggled to accept that God loves me, and His grace is sufficient. Often, I hear the cruel refrain, "you are nothing, a nobody, a total loser!" Yet, I also hear the comforting words, "Jesus forgives you!" Help me transform my thoughts, Lord, and renew my mind. I aspire to be elevated into holiness and truth. I now understand that God's convictions require effort. I must remain steadfast in Him, dwell in His presence, and cultivate my personal relationship with Him. I must relinquish my finances, health, and discipline to God. By allowing God full access to my life, I will be renewed in my mind, and my relationship with Jesus will be reborn. I yearn to overcome my past and live victoriously with the Lord Jesus by my side and within me. I desire to embody the words of Romans 6:22 today, "But now that you have been set free from sin and have become slaves of God, the fruit you get leads to sanctification and its end, eternal life." And let's not forget to stand on Hebrews 8:12, "For I will be merciful toward their iniquities, and I will remember their sins no more." What an awe-inspiring and magnificent God we serve. As I contemplate this, I declare with conviction James 4:7, "Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you." This is my belief and my present prayer for my own life. Grace is a potent force of liberation. I long for transformation, to become a better person, more pleasing to God and to those around me. I walk in the footsteps of Jesus, striving for perfection, though I recognize my imperfections. I willingly yield control, Lord Jesus, inviting Your grace to conquer my guilt and liberate me from past sins. I do not wish to deny You, Lord Jesus, as Peter once did in Matthew 26:69-75. Please, Father God, grant me the strength to seek Your forgiveness. My burdens have become too heavy to bear alone. You know the battles I face and the anger within me. Lord, how can I shed this weight of guilt and release these sins that haunt me daily? Today, I surrender my life completely into Your hands. Lord Jesus, I embrace You as my Lord and Savior. Holy Spirit, renew my mind and align me with the teachings of Jesus Christ. Amen.

Overcoming Parental Guilt: Embracing God's Grace

by Yvette van Niekerk

Introduction Guilt is a powerful emotion that often finds its way into my thoughts, especially in the quiet moments of early morning or late at night. It clings to me, stemming from a sense of not being there enough for my children, even though they are now grown and parents themselves. While my youngest son has offered forgiveness, my eldest is still navigating his own challenges, and my daughter, she holds her feelings close. Her love for me, however, is unwavering. The Burden of Guilt It's become clear that this guilt is holding me back spiritually. It clouds my judgment and distorts my sense of purpose. At times, I feel undeserving of God's boundless grace and mercy. Yet, I turn to the scriptures, to Psalms 103:10-11, which reminds me: "He does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities. For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so great is his steadfast love toward those who fear him." Seeking Forgiveness In 1 John 1:9, I find solace: "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." It's a constant process, of acknowledging both known and unknown transgressions. I implore the Lord for His mercy and forgiveness. Freedom from Sin Romans 6:7 offers a glimmer of hope: "For one who has died has been set free from sin." Yet, releasing the grip of guilt is not always easy. It sneaks up on me when I least expect it, leaving me feeling abandoned and alone. Confronting Condemnation In recent months, I've found myself trapped in a cycle of self-condemnation. Feelings of unworthiness and a belief that this is what I deserve have taken hold. But is this truly what I believe? Is this the life I'm meant to lead? Is God punishing me, withdrawing His favor because of my past? Discovering God's Love I yearn to understand God's love for me. To recognize His hand at work in my life, even amid adversity. Perhaps these trials are a season of grace, a period that will ultimately lead me to a deeper understanding of His love. Embracing Forgiveness I hold fast to the belief that Jesus Christ has the power to transform my life. His forgiveness can replace my guilt with grace, time and time again. I'm ready to leave my guilt in the past and move forward. Stepping into Grace In Romans 12:1, I'm reminded to present myself as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God. And in Romans 8:1, the assurance echoes: "There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus." Reflecting on Romans 7:1, I understand that the law only binds us as long as we live. Conclusion As I navigate this journey of faith and self-forgiveness, I trust in God's unfailing love. Through His grace, I will find the strength to let go of guilt, embrace forgiveness, and move forward in His light.

Father God, help us, send your Angles

Heavenly Father,

We come before you with humble hearts, seeking Your guidance and strength. We acknowledge the truth in Your Word, that Your angels encamp around those who fear You. In moments of trouble, when we face the unknown, Your angels are dispatched to rescue, guide, and comfort us. We look to the stories of old, where Your divine messengers intervened in the lives of Your faithful ones, delivering them from peril, changing their life's course, helping them face insurmountable challenges, and strengthening them in their weakest moments. Just as Lot was rescued from the impending destruction of Sodom, just as Moses found purpose in the flames of a burning bush, just as Joshua received a divine plan to bring down the walls of Jericho, and just as Elijah, in his weariness, was touched and comforted by an angel, we too trust in Your divine intervention. We are reminded of Daniel, whose faithfulness led him into the lion's den, yet Your angel shut the mouths of the lions and brought him out unharmed. In our moments of doing what is right, battling temptation, and carrying burdens too heavy to bear, we seek Your angels' presence. We find solace in the knowledge that Jesus Himself, in His deepest anguish, was strengthened by an angel from heaven. Lord, as we face the challenges of our daily lives, we lift up our needs before You. We ask for Your wisdom and understanding as we navigate our work and personal responsibilities. We admit our weaknesses and boldly request Your angelic assistance. We trust in Your provision, knowing that You are aware of our struggles and needs. Grant us the strength to persevere, the wisdom to make the right decisions, and the faith to trust in Your divine plan. We place our trust in You, knowing that when we call upon You for help, Your angels are already on their way. We ask all these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

God's Angels at Your Side

Psalm 91:11 (NLT) assures us that God will command His angels to protect us wherever we go. Have you ever wondered when God sends His angels to assist us? Here are a few instances: When Loved Ones Disappoint: Think of Hagar, betrayed and abandoned after fulfilling God's promise. Despite her despair, God sent an angel to assure her that her son, Ishmael, was destined for greatness (Genesis 21:18). In Times of Public Humiliation: Consider Mary, facing disgrace for a pregnancy outside wedlock. God sent an angel to affirm her place in His divine plan, protecting her from societal judgment (Luke 1:34-38). Amidst Grief and Fear: Reflect on Mary Magdalene, mourning Jesus’ death. In her sorrow, God sent an angel to declare the miraculous truth: “He is not here; He is risen” (Matthew 28:6). Remember, Hebrews 13:2 reminds us that some have unknowingly hosted angels through their kindness. Despite the world's cynicism, it's essential to trust that God's love for you is genuine. He cares deeply, even sending angels to assist and comfort you in your times of need.

When God Sends His Angels

by Yvette van Niekerk Hebrews 1:14 NIV reminds us, “Are not all angels ministering spirits sent to serve those who will inherit salvation?”

God's presence can manifest in countless ways. Just as the disciples mistook Jesus for a ghost during the storm, our human understanding can sometimes cloud our faith. The Scriptures affirm that angels are "ministering spirits sent to serve those who will inherit salvation." Have you ever encountered an angel? They don't always appear in resplendent white robes with grand wings. Often, they blend so seamlessly with the ordinary that we may overlook them. Hebrews 13:2 urges us, “Do not forget to show hospitality to strangers, for by so doing some people have shown hospitality to angels without knowing it.” Perhaps you wonder why God sends angels when He has blessed us with His Holy Spirit for help, protection, and guidance. It's crucial to remember that God dispatched an angel to rescue Peter from prison just before his execution. Likewise, on his journey to Rome, Paul found himself on a ship battered by a fierce storm. In that dire moment, God sent an angel to assure him of survival. Paul later shared with the crew and passengers: “Take heart, for there will be no loss of life among you, but only of the ship. For there stood by me this night an angel of the God to whom I belong and whom I serve, saying, ‘Do not be afraid, Paul’” (Acts 27:22-23). While I may not have seen angels with my own eyes, deep within my heart, I hold steadfast faith that they watch over me. Their gaze never wavers; they are God's messengers, sent to guide, protect, and bring us comfort in times of need.

change my expectations

by Yvette van Niekerk

John 15:11 “These things have I spoken unto you, that my joy might remain in you.” Are you struggling to find joy in your life? Jesus promised us that His joy would remain in us and that our joy would be full. However, stress and unrealistic expectations can drain us of joy and lead us to a life of depression, dullness, and discontent. Here are two things you can do to experience the joy that Jesus promised: Concede that your uprightness is largely because of the way you have decided life would be. Acknowledge that your expectations are causing you much of your frustrations. When you keep expecting things to always be a certain way and they’re not, you will always be upset. Try approaching life today without all those expectations. For example, don’t expect everybody to be friendly – then when some are, you will be delighted. Don’t expect your day to be hassle-free; when trouble comes, look up and say “Thank you, LORD, for another chance to grow.” Rather than swimming against the tide, learn to flow with it. Pretty soon, you will find you are enjoying life more! And not just that: Other people will enjoy being around you more. Start memorizing scripture. Colossians 3:16 “Let the Word of Christ dwell in you richly.” When we have stored wonderful words in our memory, we will have a much richer inner life than someone who doesn’t. Memorizing never makes your mind a duller place – just the opposite! The words we carry in our minds are available to transform any given moment. So when there is a verse of Scripture that speaks to you, stop and write it on a card. Put it on a mirror in your bathroom, on your smartphone or calendar, or in your car. If you’re an auditory learner, listen to the scripture being read on CDs or on an iPod. If you’re a visual learner, light a candle and read these words: “God is light; in him, there is no darkness at all” 1 John 1:4 NIV. When God’s word is rehearsed, remembered, and repeated often, it’s like a stream of joy, peace, and strength that flows through our lives. Remember, joyless Christianity is dangerous. Let us strive to find joy in our lives by changing our expectations and memorizing scripture.

A Heart of True Service

by Yvette van Niekerk

Romans 1:1 (NASB) "Paul, a bond-servant of Christ Jesus, called as an apostle." In the tapestry of faith, the term "minister" weaves both noun and verb, denoting both person and action. It is not a mere claim, but a commitment lived out. In the pages of Scripture, we find the term "servant" painted vividly, sometimes depicting a galley slave, chained to the oar of a Roman vessel. Day and night, they rowed to the rhythm set by one another, anticipating their life's end bound to the oar. What a profound image! Paul entreats, "Dear brothers and sisters, I urge you to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship." (Romans 12:1, NLT) Paul's conviction was unwavering; he knew without a doubt what God had called him to be. When Paul referred to himself as a "bond servant," he painted a portrait of a servant who faithfully labored for his master for six years. In the seventh, the Mosaic law dictated that the servant be released. Yet, if, upon freedom, he returned and declared, "Master, I serve not out of obligation, but out of love for you," his master would lead him before a magistrate, and his ear would be pierced, signifying that he now belonged to him forever. (Exodus 21:6-7) There comes a moment when we must lift our gaze and declare, "LORD, I serve not because I must, but because I love You. Pierce my ear, mark me as Yours. Bind me to You, so I may never belong to another." Is this request too great, considering all that Jesus has done for us? Lord, strengthen my faith in times of doubt. Amen.

Embracing Your Divine Design: Priorities in His Plan

Scripture: Hebrews 13:20-21 (The Message) "Now may the God of peace... make you complete in everything good so that you may do His will, working among us that which is pleasing in His sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be the glory forever and ever. Amen." Devotional: Dear Beloved in Christ, In our journey to fulfil God's plan for our lives, we must begin by establishing clear priorities guided by His wisdom. It is said that a conclusion is where one may grow weary of pondering, and often, we might settle for priorities based on our own limitations. However, this is not the path God intends for us. Let us not allow ourselves to be swayed by the agendas of others, but rather, let us align our lives with God's divine will for us. Let us turn to the book of Hebrews, chapter 13, verses 20 and 21, where we are led to pray for God's equipping: "God, I pray for them. I pray that you would help them to do your will today, to do your will in their lives, and you would equip them with all they need to do that." Remember, dear friend, you are chosen and appointed by God for a specific purpose. Your life is meant to bear fruit, fruit that endures long after your earthly journey. As we navigate this path, let us focus on understanding our unique strengths, the gifts that God has graciously bestowed upon us. Reflect on what brings you the highest spiritual return, and what brings you joy and fulfillment. These are your core gifts, entrusted to you by the Almighty. Remember the 80/20 principle in all your endeavours. Dedicate the majority of your efforts to the activities that resonate most deeply with your calling. In doing so, you will heed Jesus' guidance to direct your attention towards the areas that yield the most abundant fruit. May God grant you the wisdom and discernment to recognize your strengths and the courage to utilize them for His glory. Seek His guidance daily, for in His presence, you will find the clarity you seek. In Christ's love, Yvette