Lesson Learned: Embracing Life's Changes

By Yvette van Niekerk Job 23: 10 (RSV) But he knows the way that I take; when he has tried me, I shall come forth as gold. Throughout my life, I've come to realize that change is the only constant, even when we resist it. It may sound simplistic, but every day brings new experiences, and circumstances are in a perpetual state of flux. People, including myself, are prone to changing their minds. What held great importance yesterday might merely be a passing thought today. Amidst my countless aspirations, time often slips through my fingers. Between a full day of work and preparing dinner upon returning home, the hours seem to vanish. After dinner, we wash the dishes and settle in front of the TV. We wind down with a bath before heading to bed. This routine, while comforting, can sometimes feel like a never-ending loop. Reflecting on the story of Job, I am struck by the magnitude of his trials. He lost everything, even his beloved children. Yet, in the end, Job declared, "I shall come forth as gold." Currently, I find myself in a crucible of pressure, where my thoughts weigh heavily on me. I battle feelings of inadequacy and a sense of insignificance. The process of refinement is arduous, and at times, it feels like an uphill climb. I perceive the need for this refining process in my life. I believe the Lord is meticulously honing me, much like silver in a furnace. "For You, O God, have tested us; You have refined us like silver." Lord, I yearn for Your purification, to be made worthy in Your eyes. I long to emerge as gold, but I recognize that this transformation requires God's hand to purify not just my faith, but also my speech and actions. My thoughts, too, need this sanctification. This morning, I earnestly seek You, Lord, for I am utterly dependent on You. I yearn to draw near to Your presence intentionally. Every minute of this day, I surrender into Your hands, seeking Your guidance and grace. Thank You, Lord, for hearing my prayers. You are acquainted with the challenges we face at this very moment. Today, I declare Psalm 34:19 over our circumstances: "Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but You, Lord, deliver us from them all." I will be attentive to Your voice, Lord. Guide us through this day. You are my rock, and I am profoundly grateful that You incline Your ear to me.