‘All of you be submissive to one another, and
be clothed with humility, for “God resists the proud, but gives grace to the
humble.”’ 1 Peter: 5: 5
The first step to healing your mistrust in other people is
to humble yourself before God and serve man.
If you think this is easy let me tell you truthfully; it isn’t. This is a process which takes time, because
of your violated trust it is almost impossible to trust people. The most important thing you should realise
is that your trust is normally violated by someone very close to you.
Humbly yourself before God isn’t that easy. It isn’t a matter of say ‘I humble myself’
and you are humble. No sir, it doesn’t work
that way. Things in your life will
challenge you and the proud spirit you have will automatically jump to your
defence. ‘How dear you speak to me like
that.’ This was my first reaction and it
took me some time to realise, hey that isn’t someone being humble. In difficult situations I find it hard not to
speak my mind and stand my man. The only
way to overcome this is to pray in the spirit and ask the Lord God to place a
watch over your mouth and guard your thoughts.
Believe me this is a process and I am still learning each day. So being submissive toward my new husband is
slowly but surely falling into place.
Being kind towards other people is just as difficult because my pride is
my main stumbling block.
‘He who finds his life will lose it, and he who
loses his life for My sake will find it.’ Matthew 10: 39
The second and most important part is to really and truly
seek the Lord God. You need to stop and
watch your words and thoughts. You need
to make an effort in spending time in God’s word and become quiet in His
presence. At first you won’t feel that
you are making any progress. Then
suddenly God will speak into your life.
Something will just fall into place and you will know without a doubt
God just spoke to you.
‘And this commandment we have from Him: that he who loves God must love his brother
also.’ 1 John 4: 21
Thirdly, to take this violated hurt away you need to love
your neighbour. Believe me this too isn’t
something that just happens overnight. The
minute you start working on your relationship with God many things start to
fall apart around you. You will find
people are aggressive and ready to take you on for any situation. But take heart and push through this, because
the end result is amazing.
God will lift you up and you will become someone God
ordained you to be. Your life will have
meaning and you will feel fulfilled.
Prayer
Lord God, in my heart I want to dedicate people into Your
hands that have been through all kinds of abusive situations. They may have been abused and it may have
left them feeling empty and violated.
Lord I don’t know what their situations may be but in humbleness I
dedicate each person into Your hands today asking for forgiveness of sin. Praying Lord that You will touch their lives
and bring healing into their lives.
Helping them deal with each situation as it comes along, and moving
closer to You in the Holy Name of Jesus Christ.
Lord I pray for their protection and healing and ask You to help them. Amen